Hello,
I filed a custody case against my x girlfriend the moment I found out, she was taking our daughter and leaving her alone around her grandfather who molested three of his daughters including Maggie (my x). The molestations happened overtime continuously and all three of them have experienced and witnessed this monster taking either their own or their sister's innocence away. However, he had done such a good job in keeping them quiet that, even in their late 30's all three of them goes on with their lives like nothing happened. They protect him and lie to others about his sick behavior. Their reasoning behind his protection is that, "He had repented for his sins and, it's all in God's hands now". Maggie said to me that, her and her sister's will deny any accusations about their father which I have on video. And, the mom plays a typical see no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil.
Previously, I had requested Maggie to not take Sanjana (our daughter) around him and she promised she will not and, if she did, Sanjana will be under constant supervision. However, I found out that, not only she takes and leaves our daughter with her parents alone in the house, Sanjana goes to the liquor store with him and he buys her candies. Not to mention, she also moved in to the house with Sanjana. He is a "KNOWN BUT UNREPORTED" sexual predator. Everyone in his family knows that but, they all keep their mouth shut.
Before I took any actions, I sat down with Maggie and PLEADED for us to be partners and a team so that, we can create a LOVING, positive, joyful environment together for Sanjana. I know Maggie is psychologically affected for the abuse she endured and offered to take care of Sanjana full time and pay all of Maggie's bills so she can attend therapy of her choice. The next day while on the phone as I was just going to give her information on the therapist, she said, she was fine and hung up.
I had no choice but to take her to court to protect our daughter from being exposed to this monster but to my dismay, Ex Parte hearing was denied and DCFS is taking their sweet time not to mention, treating me like a liar and that I over exaggerate. What TOPS it all that, Maggie has chosen not to release Sanjana so she can spend time with her father. Maggie has no court orders nor restraining order. There was never any domestic violence while we were together and when we separated. However, now she claims and told the social worker that, I do drugs which, of course, proved negative after I took a drug test for DCFS and that I had attacked her, stalked her blah blah blah. The truth is, I haven't spoken to her for little over month and a half and, I don't knowing that, she can just call the cops and tell them that I threatened her life.
She is a master manipulator and knows how to lie through her teeth and play the victim so well, she deserves an oscar. She was able to convince the social worker so much so that, when the social worker came to see me she was very standoffish and rude. Before she left, she said, "Soel, I came here to meet the biggest A^&hole ever, and, I am shocked to see that, you are the complete opposite". During the meeting, I showed the video of Maggie protecting her father's actions. The social worker was shocked and said, "she is so convincing". However, after the next visit with Maggie, the social worker calls and says that, there is "NOTHING" she can do and she cannot use the video to protect Sanjana because, "it was taken without Maggie's consent". In the meantime, I wonder, if Sanjana or any of her many cousins have become victim of this monster.
To get to the point, Maggie has also chosen not to release our daughter so that, we can have time together. As I stated above, it has been over a month and a half and we haven't spend time. It is extremely hurtful for Sanjana as she is only five and used to being with her papa. We spent every Wednesday and every weekend together. I am scared and afraid that, her mother's evil self satisfaction and agenda is hurting Sanjana emotionally and psychologically. It is unfathomable to me, how can a mother disregard her own child's well being, takes her to a man who raped her and in the court of law, it's not a case for a X Parte retraining order.
I have an attorney and she is telling me to wait 'till the court date which is going to be in Oct. I cannot wait that long without seeing my daughter.
I need your help. What rights or who shall I call to report Maggie's actions. How can I have her release Sanjana to her father? How can I expedite the whole nightmare court process. PLEASE HELP. PLEASE.
THANK YOU!!
Soel K.
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